So, if I understand correctly, you don't trust your valve adjustment.
If it was my job to do, normally I would use the EOIC method, but I think in your case it may be better to simplify
I would follow the firing order and bring each cylinder to TDC, but use a ratchet and a socket, turning the direction of engine rotation. With a street cam like that I cannot imagine any ramp issues. I do bump the starter for solids and for EOIC, but the more we can slow this down to a repeatable, by cylinder, process, the more I think you will be comfortable
Then take your time to get to zero lash on one rocker at a time. Make some slop, make it go away, doi it again, and teach yourself to feel for the slop, ignore all the other stuff like how squishy it feels, or how much resistance, just figure out how to feel when there is more space available than there is pushrod length, then learn to make that go away. Yearn to be able to say this "I am positive that there is zero slop between the rocker and pushrod and top of the lifter, but the plunger is not compressed"
THEN, when you are confident, for THAT rocker, add a careful and measured full turn of the wrench and hold the wrench as you tighten the lock nut and go to the next one.
Each rocker, you will get better at feeling it. Remember this is preload and it has a window of "good enough" Do one, turn the motor by hand, and do the next until you get to #8
Remember, if you are cranking and there is oil pressure, some lifters will be in a position to fill and have little spring pressure, others will have pushed the oil out and maybe not refilled, so ignore all that and just think "available space for the pushrod"
The last thing I'd say is maybe it's time to dump the adjustables and go factory style. You likely will NEVER have to adjust again, so you could just set up for factory, sell off your stuff and build an uber-reliable system. FWIW, I am doing a 10.25:1 396 with a stout little hyd cam and I have no intent to deal with adjustable rockers, it could be an easy way for you to sleep at night LOL