Same thoughts here
I don't clock a seal, too much chance to crush it and I dont add RTV. The seal actually crushes a bit, so silicone won't do much even if you did use it, they are designed to crush together slightly. I will oil the seal very lightly on the sealing lip though just before I drop the crank in. Also, double check you are putting both halves in the correct direction, make that triple check! Been a long time, but I have made that mistake....
Last thing I would do is smack a crank, although a forged unit should be fine, a habit like that could have you breaking cast cranks. Not to mention you cannot control or measure it.
Better method is to set up your dial indicator without the thrust cap on, check it with the bottom only, if its good or more than required, put the cap on loose, pry the crank forward, torque it and check the thrust clearance. Prying will move it as much as a hammer will and you can watch the clearance on the dial indicator as you go full forward and full back.
One think to look at though, look at the main cap and see how it dumps oil. See the "mouth" or grooved slot on the main cap below?
That slot dumps the oil pressure, the seal only seals against what splashes there not oil pressure. In only a few cases over the years I have seen windage trays, oil pans, or even just excited RTV application block that slot. Check yours during assembly. Otherwise, you bolt the pan on and pressurize the seal and it will never hold 50+ psi. it doesn't happen a lot, but it can happen