Thats what i am going to do. Also if a lighter pin, and rod would help it, but i don't know those weights yet.
Yes, a lighter bob-weight would "probably" make the job easier! And then although there's nothing wrong with the owner being "involved" in the process, but it 'is' the guy whom has been 'contracted' for the balancing service that 'should' be approaching 'you' concerning what would work to make the job simpler, or in some instances even just feasible.

Seriously, this issue isn't that uncommon, but I don't have your setup in front of me, and I'm not privy to the conversation you might have had with the shop, but when one experiences one of these, although, if one has any sum of experience, you might grimace with disgust saying "rats, another one!", it just kinda goes with the territory!

Of course, the shop might want to contact the customer to advise them that although "we can" balance it, it's moving into the territory of "time & materials" to do so! Either that, or the customer starts spending additional money buying "other" componentry in the effort to reduce the costing in the balancing effort; which sorta just doesn't make a lot of sense, unless otherwise it has been concluded that it isn't feasible otherwise. Which I really doubt in this case.

But, it sure would be nice, if the crankshaft manufacture's would "engineer" and "execute" the counter-weights 'properly'!

Scott.