I typically use plumbing - PTFE thread sealant. (Rectorseal, etc) . I've used all the old stuff like Indian Head, shellac and such. Dropped all that years ago as modern stuff works way, way better. Most water stuff and china walls I use high temp black RTV. The Dow stuff also works great. RTV works, but i should be used sparingly. On pan gaskets and such, I prefer using pan studs, put a very, very thin swipe of RTV on the pan side, then install - block side dry. That's mostly to help the gasket stay with the removed part because my engines get the inside looked at periodically. Also use more advanced gaskets and not old cork and such.