On rods, the alignment is on both sides (rod & cap) and it is only to align both sides, stock type rod bolts do what brent has done but, it appears that he has used a Oilite type bushing material (sintered bronze) and porous metal. To me, it's hard to say there is no bending moment, when you have a 1.76 lever from the valve, a couple of inches, above the threaded hole.
Another idea would be to make the stands out of 4140, HT steel bar stock and make a integral, hollow dowel pin, at the base, 1/2 to 5/8 diameter. Vertically slot the the for the oil hole.
I like Jared's too. He needs to sell his design to one of the FE suppliers.
I don't agree at all, well except that I like Jared's, I agree it's a nice design, but could be overkill
1 - Rods have angular loads and then change directions, the changing of direction is significant, and if you don't like rod analogy because it doesn't load and unload , think mains that do the same, this type of pin works the same way and main caps can fret too and this design fixes it. It is being unloaded and loaded from side to side and on different ends, just like this.FEs don't use the collared pin, but other caps do. Regardless, if you don't like either analogy, it isn't important anyway, it's countering the cause of the movement that is important not just what it may or may not be like.
2 - IMHO, the lever you talk about doesn't exact that type of force on the stand and the primary vector is upwards. You have a pushrod trying to go up on one side, and a valve/spring trying to stay up on the other side, which puts the pressure upwards on the shaft. Because that the majority of the vector is upward with sort of a rocking oscillation. What I think we see with the fretting is the loading and unloading causing harmonics which causes the movement of the stands and slight movement within the slop of the bolts. A small pin, or this type of fix is likely all that is needed up to a very high rpm.
I do not believe it is a resistance to pressure requiring bracing, I think it is a transfer of oscillation into the larger head that controls it. Of course both designs do it, but one does very simply.