First thing I do is cut out the excess gasket that 'floats' in the ports. I don't want any of that stuff getting stuffed through the oil system. Don't know if it's necessary, but seems like an obvious thing to do.
I always use some TA32 sealer and just smear it around the gasket. Like most flat gaskets, I smear it on as thin as I can get it, being careful to wipe it back a bit from the actual ports so that none of it squeezes into them. You don't even want enough on that will cause it to squeeze out. Mine have never leaked or seeped.