If you trust your measurements, I think first I would look close at cylinder 2, the short pair, and see if you have a stand that is a bit shorter. It could be pulling down on the shaft skewing the responses and even pulling down the intake on #3 Might even be able to see it with a set of calipers loose, or try swapping stands and see if it follows.
If you pull the shorties out, the average exhaust becomes 8.724 and the loose one is at .020 delta
The average intake then becomes pretty tight at 8.714 with the worst delta at .010, likely within measuring error.
If I found something on that #2 stand, I think I would likely then measure every stand and make sure they are as close as they can be without getting crazy.
FYI, I am not countering anyone else's post, just looking at your table those 3 jumped out at me so I started playing with numbers. Even with slight valve height differences, you may find a little filing or swapping of stands lets you get close and then you can either go with a single length or intake and exhaust. FWIW if I was able to hit within a range of .040 to .060 preload cold on a hydraulic flat tappet, I wouldn't worry, but I don't have a lot of experience with hydraulic rollers in FEs, all that I have done were in SBCs and SBFs with adjustable rockers, so if Blair, Brent of Barry says .050-.060, I'd shoot for it