I've run "pro" gears for years in the wagon and they are quiet as a mouse. It only took 15 yrs of beating on them to finally chip a tooth. I heard horror stories early on that I would have to replace them every few years due to "wear". Ya, that was a old wives tale.
Granted, they might not go 100K miles, but for a weekend warrior I think they would survive with good lubrication(I run synthetic).
Depending on your power requirements I would not run Pro gears if you don't need to. With my car weight and power, I put a 10" tire on the car and it only took ONE pass to snap the pinion shaft off. That was near 20 yrs ago and I still have the broken spline/nut on my desk here at work(looking right at it now).
Were your friends gears new and noisy?