IMO, if you're gonna take the time to go through the motion, I would focus on minimizing the sweep across the valve stem and make that the highest priority. The second priority would be trying to center it as much as possible on the stem. With a little bit of work, shimming, or milling, you should be able to get about a .050-.060" pattern on the tip pretty easily.
Minimizing the sweep means that you're are netting the most lift that you can.
What I see passed around the most is that the pattern *has* to be centered on the tip. Rarely does it happen that way and that's certainly not a priority.