Everyone seems to think that a diaphragm pressure plate makes the clutch easier on your leg, but that's not the reality of it.
The common McLeod 11" Long pressure plate that they use in their clutch kits is an 1800 lb pressure plate. The McLeod 11" diaphgram plate that they use (it has an 11" Long bolt pattern so that you can bolt it up to a Ford flywheel) is 2400 lbs.
If you switch over to RAM, their 11" Long pressure plate is 1800-2400 lbs, depending on which kit you buy, and their 11" diaphragm pressure plate is 2200-2400 lbs, also depending on which one you buy.
You gain nothing by switching to diaphragm, unless your only other choice is a 3000-3500 lb Long style pressure plate from the 1960's.
In the old days, there weren't that many friction materials available, so you had to work with an organic disc and a lot of clamping load. Today, we have better materials including sintered bronze, sintered iron, Kevlar, etc., and it allows the pressure plate load to be greatly reduced.
Never really was a CF fan. A decade or so ago, I moved a lot more drivetrain parts than I do now, and the amount of emails I got from guys wanting to switch because their clutch systems didn't work really surprised me. Now granted, it was from guys with lighter vehicles, like the Cobra replicas, light Mustangs, etc., but once I switched them over to a RAM/McLeod, their issues went away.
I'd have to dig a little bit, but I think with a big input Toploader, your choice is going to be necked down anyway. Trying to get that input shaft to work with a diaphgram pressure plate would be pretty much impossible. Even some of the Long style pressure plates have to have the fingers modified to work with the larger trans.
Both RAM and McLeod offer 1-3/8" clutch kits in a Long style. Again, I slightly favor the RAM for higher horsepower applications.
Specifically to the OP: Instead of doing a big input swap, I'd seriously look at an 1-1/8"x26 input shaft swap. There's a lot more clutch kit offerings and the strength will equal or be higher than the 1-3/8".