You had a soda can amount of coolant in the oil and you don't have a leak? At 25PSI, it would have shown up. A crack that opens up when the engine gets hot just leaks faster. It never stops leaking when the engine is cold. I don't think you are dealing with a crack. For something like this, you recheck head bolt torque and make sure all bolts going into coolant have a thread sealer on them.