You can't go wrong with Harland Sharp rockers on anything short of an all out race engine needing Race T&D rockers. I had to hone a couple sets when I used them, but never a problem with any of them in many miles. I would try to adhere to the couple threads showing like HS recommends, especially on aluminum rockers. Less stress at the adjuster hole in the rocker. I don't think it's as crucial on factory iron rockers, but still a good practice for geometry etc.
I have been running HD shafts, iron rockers, without end stands on my Highboy for 20 years without a problem also. With mild street cams, a good shaft will hold up well if iron stands are used. My cam is fairly mild at .550 lift, 227@.050 duration, and sees 5500-5700 max rpms. Anything more aggressive and I would step up to end stands also.