Brent nailed it, a couple other points
- Aftermarket heads generally need an aftermarket bolt because of no room for a socket AND the washer he mentioned
- I am not a stud fan on the mains in a 2-bolt FE, I have never seen cap walk with a bolt, but have seen studs on #2 and #4 walk on a 428 block
- My gut tells me the stock bolts on an FE, assuming they torque well, are almost indestructible, BUT, like Brent, the added 100 dollar note for high quality, washered bolts that torque without as much friction is very hard to beat
I'd like to give a simple answer, unless some sort of resto that needs stock style head bolts, up to about 6200-6500 rpm with a common rotating assembly, new ARP head and main bolts, and associated deck plate hone and main alignment is where it's at.
I wanted to give a higher RPM, but at that point, I think you need crossbolts or maybe a pinned main, so it doesn't push you to studs as much as it pushes you to a solution