Not a direct comparison, but I raced 6BT Cummins for a number of years and they tend to get #6 pretty toasty. So much so that I would knock the rear freeze plug and run a bypass to pull coolant out of the back of the block/head and send it back to the rad directly. I measured pressure and temps there and it was not uncommon to see 75 psi and 30-50* more temp at the back (these are averages from a 5.9 after a run and a shift RPM of around 6200).
Oil temp vs Coolant temp depends on even more factors. On my OBS 7.3 PowerStroke shop truck, the oil temp takes about 20 minutes longer to come up to temp and runs about 10* cooler than coolant temp unless its been pulling for a while. My Ranger with a 4.0SOHC and a temp sensor in the pan, the coolant temp and oil temp run within a few degrees of each other, but if you're just driving around it takes a while for the temps to meet, about 8-10 minutes.
Then you have the opposite, the Cat in my FLC, the oil temp NEVER warms up unless I hook something to it. I've driven it empty 140 miles in 75* ambient and never got the engine oil temp or trans temp over 100*. I think it's probably obvious in this case that it has a very large oil cooler and was meant to run WOT for hours/days at at time. Just for comparison that each engine and each build you have to take into consideration some of the specifics.