An update on this, and I'll sort of answer my own question here... I already got burned my first day of the new motor running in traffic forgetting to flip my toggle switch for the electric choke causing the motor to run super rich and angry, so this motivated me to get the relay wired in place. What I ended up doing was hooking the switch lead from the relay to the Armature post on the generator, which does turn 14v at idle, but no volts when ignition is on and motor is not turning. I don't have any traffic time yet, but this should work a-ok. I'll update again when I have more road time.