Man I have been running aftermarket alum rockers for a LONG time, in fact, my current set in the 489 are over 10 years old. I have seen some Comp and Dove's break, but usually only with high spring pressure, and keep in mind those aren't bushed or bearings. My Ersons I think will last forever at flat tappet pressures, the weight is distributed across the bearing case and the pressures on each end just aren't that wild on a pure street engine
That being said, with hydraulic roller I am a huge proponent of the stock hyd rockers. However, I wouldn't hesitate to use any available name-brand rocker out there, and Ersons or T&D streets I wouldn't even think twice based on a failure rate of zero on every set I have seen or used.
I also second Brent's comment and add that if you don't trust the guy to pick a rocker, I am not sure I would trust him to build it....