Wow, 60 grams for the valves?? That is unbelievably light, are you sure about that number? What kind of valves are they?
Those spring pressures don't sound out of line to me if you are running a fairly aggressive lobe profile. The lobes aren't that big, but if the ramps are aggressive you will need a fairly heavy spring. Why are you concerned with those spring pressures? They are actually pretty mild for a roller cam. Also, I've never heard of a valve with a spring pressure limit. If you can give more detail on all this it would help...