Well the 282S is actually marginally milder than the 280H. The reason is, as you subtract lash from the solid cam, action at the valve is a bit less than the hydraulic
Additionally, most have seen better RPM capability with the solids than they have the hydraulics. So you win on both ends
That being said, these aren't critical issues, but what the Comp tech told you really doesn't make sense, which is not uncommon either. Either way I wouldn't sweat it both of those cams are sweethearts in a 428.
A third option would be to can the Comp idea and go with a Bullet or Oregon cam, in my 445 I used a Bullet solid grind, very similar to a 282S, but with a wider LSA to tone down the overlap a little in a heavy truck. It worked very well too, I replaced a 270H and I gained power everywhere
Just bench racing though, a difference in a few degrees of cam timing isn't going to change the build significantly.
Also, I seriously doubt you will need a vacuum canister. Set initial timing to 14 BTDC, set up the distributor to have 36 degrees or so at 2800. The increased initial will keep vacuum where you want it to be. A second option would be to advance the cam to 102 or 104 ICL, early cam timing brings idle vacuum up a little higher, but I really don't think it will be needed with a 428.
302 Fords and 350 Chevies may get a little lumpy with a 280 degree cam, that could be why they warned you, but a 428 is a different animal