So very sorry for the loss of your pet. They are true members of the family and when gone are missed terribly. Glad you made that haul safely, after some things. As a wish-i-could-retire guy, you did the right thing IMHO. We'll have to make choices here too.
>The trailer took the torture of our nations highways and held together beautifully.
This is no bullshit. We moved our daughter/grandkids to Albuquerque last week from here in Merkel (west of Abilene Tx). Dammit. We put 3760 lbs of house in the 34' trailer. On the scales we were 20,760 total - truck, trailer, grandma, grandpa and two chihuahuas. I-20 was mostly OK with some crap spots. I-84 north of Lubbock was spotty and worse north of Muleshoe. Clovis to Santa Rosa was a bitch, bumpy as hell. But it'll be OK once we hit I-40 I'm sure. NOT. Hit places that bounced the entire rig into another lane. That's running 65~68 tops. Holes, strips of missing roadway, etc. Coming back east was just as bad and I caught a tire about to fail in Santa Rosa, lucky us. The tires are all beat up so will put fresh tires on the trailer this Friday ($1100!!). Trailer is 3 years old. So - yea. You going on a road trip, check your tires, spare(s) and running gear because it a rough sonofagun out there in the real world.