A couple of comments
1 - I have never stripped an aluminum thread if proper engagement depth, not ham-fisted, and have yet to have an issue with any head if using good anti-seize
2 - Sealing an exhaust has less to do with torque and more to do with matching parts and good assembly, it's not like we are torquing mains
3 - In general, I'd rather have a small chamber, less piston weight than a larger chamber with more piston weight. The second benefit is surface area and clean burn path. The latter not a big issue with 69.8 vs 72-76 but in general.....
4 - Comparing a CnC BBM to a TFS is fine, and for big gulping, big inch, high RPM motors, is likely a valid comparison, but the small time the valve touches the lift that creates backup, the ability to touch a few areas to eliminate that, and the amount of deflection you see when running the spring pressures required for that cam, most of the guys here, including me, will never have to worry about it
5 - Comparing a CnC BBM to a TFS is also fine if someone lists price for each. That last bit of CFM needs to be weighed against what I think is a significantly higher price (but I have never had a set of CnC BBMs in my hands)
6 - Port volume does matter as Brent said. Huge "it depends" here, but more volume will want more overlap (in general) and to get that flow, if the BBM is significantly bigger, yes it has more potential, but the TFS works real well even with very small overlap values. A lower flowing port like the non-CnC BBM will likely want a little bit more overlap to fill the cylinder.
7 - 550-ish HP at 5750 from a 231 duration cam, with 114 LSA and less than 63 degrees overlap and just at 600 ft lbs. This is a truck motor with off the shelf parts. Sort of shows how these work for "Everyday Joe"
I am a TFS fan, for now, had a single set of BBMs though here and they were gorgeous, never used a CnC BBM, but for me, there has to be a very good reason to shift upwards in price or downwards in flow with a standard head. Maybe an existing build that would be too high in compression? However, they aren't the end-all, just a real good head, and readily available