Yes, taking the gap from slappers makes it ride rough. Been there with my '69 F100. I want to get ladder bars back under it someday, but the slappers at least get me by. Tightening the gap takes some of the stored energy from the springs wrap up from hitting the tire.
Ya, for this I would look at the Clutch tamer(did I say that? LOL). What could it hurt? It basically slips the clutch for you, which is what you need. I have no personal experience, but have done some reading on his website.
A narrower tire is another good idea, but maybe the Tamer is a better start?