I have to say that I have also never had problems running a converter with a high stall speed on the street. I started that back in 2005 with the C4 in my Mach 1, which used a 9" diameter 4500 RPM stall converter. Can ran in the mid 10s. I had a temp sensor in the trans pan and never saw it go over 180 degrees, engine temp was about 170 degrees. I put 2500 miles on that combination in one week, during Drag Week 2005. Never an issue.
I've gone as high as 6200 RPM on the stall, run the Galaxie or Shelby clone during Drag Week, and again never had a problem. I've usually run a pretty deep gear, like a 4.56, but with a Gear Vendors overdrive. Doing the math, the engine runs 200-300 RPM over what it would be running with a lockup converter, but that has never bothered me. And I have not seen any excessive heat buildup.
I think some of the issue is with the converter itself. My converters are from Neal Chance, and they cost around $1200 each. I've never hurt one, and always have been happy with their street performance, no matter how radical the car or converter. I don't think a cheap converter would work as well.